You must rise you to your priesthood. You are the one God depend on to enforce, His counsel in every place you find your self. You are not just a male...you are a priest...designed to teach the ways and counsel of God to the people around you. No female or male around you..should lack the knowledge of the counsel of Gods Word. Don't just know the truth. Submit to the truth. Practice the truth. Teach people the truth. The original purpose of God behind your gender....is to maintain ORDER....dress and keep whatsoever that crosses your path...so well that God will be proud of you. The fact you like a lady does not mean you must date her....the first step is....share Gods counsel with her. Don't sit in a place where the counsel of God is Insult yet, you keep silent as a man. Set the  pace. Raise the standard and uphold Gods interest. You are the man. You were born for this. Be responsible. Be accountable. Be deliberate. Depend on the Holy Spirit to walk in the purpose of