God created man to be in charge. If you are in a friendship or relationship where the lady dictates what you do and how you do things.....some thing is wrong. I am not trying to disrespect ladies but I am saying....you should set the pace in your relationship and marriage. You are not in a relationship to please your woman....you are in a relationship to set the pace of decision toward your destination in life before you asked her out to date or marry you. Always remember that you should respect ladies as Gods daughter but remain focused and dedicated to your dream, passion and purpose...than any value you have for any lady or your spouse. Set the balance...respect her but respect your vision and passion more!!!! Be the man. Chart the course. Dictate the pace of decision. Place value on your time and don't share your attention with any one or any lady unnecessarily. Value the kind of man God is building out of you. Wake up and take charge via Gods Word!!! HOPE EXPRESSION believes ...