Don't claim you don't know your divine purpose. Its an act of irresponsibility as a man for you not to having a course you are living your life for. What are the goals and plans your father could not achieve....be the correction of your father. If your father was not a landlord, fight to become one. What kind of success in life and in God your father could not attain? Fight to attain them. Don't repeat the mistakes of your father. Don't give your lover the chance to complain about you the same way your mum use to complain of your dad. Don't become the kind of husband and father....you complained about while growing up as a child. You can do all things as you depend on the Holy Spirit. Addictions can be broken and curse can be neutralize. This is your day. Make up your mind to become the kind of man God has ordain you to become. Be different. Be responsible. Blame no body and take charge of your life through Gods Word. HOPE EXPRESSION believes in you.