I just discovered of recent that the obstacle of youths is Grace. Looking around me I can see how youths and even teenagers are so hungry for attention, affection, respect and approval at all cost. That's not the problem. We are wired to seek  for these things but some people don't stay with the Grace God has given them. No body can value you above the value the Grace God has given you will offer to you. Some times, people put laws into their own hands. They put up attitudes, create events and situation to set up  and create value and respect for their selves. But unknowingly to them, their pursuit to create respect and value for their own self is what is tearing the value and respect God's Grace is preserving for them. Don't make any body like you. Don't prove to any body you are valuable and unique. Don't use your own fears and doubt to judge people. The greatest challenge of people is that, they don't feel respected because they are not co

Being a man is a calling and ministry. I have observed and notice the male gender have plenty excuses to be irresponsible . I don't care who failed you but you can be better. As a man, you need to learn and define your direction in life through your personal relationship with the Lord You are a king and it's your duty to be established in the studying of God's Word. It's your duty to stand in the gap in the place of prayer for your life and your destiny.  You need to be a man of  character and of polite words. Be humble and allow your life to preach truth and righteousness to people.  It's okay that you were victimised but it's time to make sure you don't victimise any body. You are a man of character and vision. I believe in you and God is committed to your life. Jesus loves you so much