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Stay In Grace

I just discovered of recent that the obstacle of youths is Grace. Looking around me I can see how youths and even teenagers are so hungry for attention, affection, respect and approval at all cost. That's not the problem. We are wired to seek  for these things but some people don't stay with the Grace God has given them.

No body can value you above the value the Grace God has given you will offer to you. Some times, people put laws into their own hands. They put up attitudes, create events and situation to set up  and create value and respect for their selves. But unknowingly to them, their pursuit to create respect and value for their own self is what is tearing the value and respect God's Grace is preserving for them.

Don't make any body like you. Don't prove to any body you are valuable and unique. Don't use your own fears and doubt to judge people.

The greatest challenge of people is that, they don't feel respected because they are not conscious of God's Grace in their lives. 

Don't test or toil with any ones feelings just to be sure they deserve you. Making it hard for people to access you, talking to you or be friendly with you will never in any way make them respect you. You might get that respect you created for few times but it always fade. 

There is an honour God has deposited in you. There is a measure of respect apportion to you by God. There is an approval God has placed in the hearts of the right people for you. STAY WITH THE GRACE GOD HAS GIVEN YOU.  

When you ignore all these and start using your own hands and brain to create respect for your self; you will be disappointed. 

People who are hungry and desperate for respect don't always get it. People who are so secured in the Grace God has given them are the ones that enjoy respect the most. 

Don't put your confidence on your virginity ;depend on God's Grace. It's not a ticket that creates respect. You can ask the five foolish virgins. Being perfect is not enough; stay with the Grace God has given to you. 

Don't be desperate, kill that insecurity with God's word and Stay with the Grace. 

Whatsoever that belongs to you will locate you if you Stay  with the Grace. 

Don't design any respect for your self. Relax and enjoy the respect God has already given you. 

Stay With the Grace! 

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