Being a man or male is a ministry and a calling. There is a purpose and assignment attached to you being a male or man.  Right from the garden of Eden - God instructed that man should "keep and dress" the garden.  Today, your garden can be your family, siblings, lover, spouse, business, relationship etc. It's your duty to dress and keep them without blaming any body.  What Does it mean to dress?   To dress is to improve, add value, correct, teach, instruct and nurture some one or business or relationship etc. .   What does it mean to "keep"?  To keep is for you to protect, preserve, defend and supervise some one, business or relationship etc.   As a man, God created you to dress and keep every thing surrounding you and all God has kept in or under your care.  That lover of yours. That lady you married. That business in your hand. That relationship in your hand. That talent within you. That vision in your hand. Whatsoever you have an

Don't complain about any you are not effectively praying about!   The energy it takes to hate and complain or judge some one for his faults, use it to pray for that person.  Let's build each other and not tear each other down.  It's okay to be angry but don't use your anger to hurt what you once loved or loving presently.  If every body complained about you without encouraging you and supporting you in prayers just like you are doing to other people now, are you sure you would have survived till this day?  Most people that have enjoyed helps from destiny helpers are the first to refuse destiny helpers to another person.  Don't let the devil succeed by making you think the other gender is your enemy.  Don't let the negative character of people turn your good heart and character into bitterness and revenge.   Do not be overcome with evil but overcome evil with God.  Mind you, you are not doing any one a favour. You are actuall

I want you to understand that both knowledge and ignorance can frustrate you in this journey of life.  I have observed and notice that what is currently delay people in your gender from entering a healthy relationship is KNOWLEDGE. Some people are limited by ignorance but another wickedness I have seen under the sun is that knowledge is limiting people.  The knowledge you have about relationship and life is to help you and also help other people. On no account must your knowledge become a stumbling block to those around you.  Stop using your knowledge as a weapon to fight people. The fact  that others don't know what you know does not mean they are inferior to you. Don't allow the knowledge God gave you the privilege to know to create pride in your heart.   Shut up for once. Listen to people even if you think you are smarter than them. I also want you to know that all you know now is just a scratch to what is expected of the whole body of Christ. 2 + 8 = 1