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MEN, LEARN TO SAY NO

As a man of godly value, you must learn how to say no to any lady who fights against your values and priorities. Your values are not just personal preferences; they are convictions rooted in God’s Word and tied to your purpose and destiny. When you compromise them for emotional comfort or fear of losing someone, you risk losing yourself and derailing your calling. Amos 3:3 asks, "Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?" If she resists or mocks what defines your life in Christ, it is not love—it is opposition disguised as affection. Saying no is not about arrogance or pride; it is about guarding your God-given assignment. Proverbs 4:23 says, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life." The woman who fights your values today will eventually fight your purpose tomorrow. A godly man must prioritize alignment over attraction, purpose over pleasure, and obedience to God over emotional attachment. If she constantly competes with you...