You are a man. You are a provider. You are a protector.  You are visionary in nature.  You are a leader.  You are a king!   Pursue all the Lord has kept in your hands and heart Live above your fears, worries and doubt Turn your pain to passion. you may loose all but don't loose your peace of mind Let this mind be in you just as it is in Christ Jesus.  Be encouraged

Beloved!   You are a Godly man and I want you to consider this.   *Don't be careless* Love is not foolishness.   Love is not stupidity.   I want you to understand that every thing in life is two sided. Relationship is two sided. The other people should be interested in the relationship just like you are interested.   You have being respecting a lady and giving her attention but she doesn't do the same to you; please keep to your self.  Stop investing on the wrong soil. When you keep respecting a lady that doesn't have time for you, that's inferiority complex.   Love is two sided. Don't stay committed to a lady that is not committed to you. Stop calling a lady that doesn't appreciate your calls. Stop spending for a lady that lacks a heart of gratitude.    *Don't be careless!*       No lady irrespective of her beauty is doing you a favour by loving you, accepting you and having a rel...

Beloved of God!   Beauty is a tool need for undertaking a vision and assignment in destiny. It's needed and enjoyed by people who understand what God has called them to be and do.  Beauty is first a liability that will demand your attention for value and positive impact. Desiring beauty is not enough, can you add more value to beauty when you get it.  The beauty of a lady is a liability that will challenge your intellectual capacity to grow and improve. The beauty of a lady is a tool.  Don't get lost in thought. Beauty is not being fair, dark, slim, average and fat. Beauty is the capacity of a lady. It is the right knowledge, right understanding and the right wisdom a lady possesses.   If you need a beautiful lady then my question will be; *why do you need a beautiful lady?*  Do you just want to feed your ego?  Do you just want to show off?  Do you just want to build your self esteem through her beauty?  If y...

Men of Godly Value Strength is not in you bragging. Strength is not in capacity. Strength is in how you develop your capacity and also use it to add value to this generation. Look around you, the word "father" or "husband" is become empty words and their meaning are fading daily. Crime is increasing, rape is increasing, and a lot of children, teenagers and youths are out there; lacking a sense of direction because Fatherhood is absent.  What kind of a father are you becoming daily? How do you treat the children, teenagers and youths that surrounds you? Do you just see them and look away without any sense of responsibility?  Do you just judge, complain and tag them as stubborn? My brothers! This is a call. I am calling the Father in you to stand up. I am awaking the father God has created you to be to embrace responsibility.  You are a Father! You might not have a child yet but you are wired as a Father. Either ...

Beloved!  You are the very first of the human race (male). You are the foundation of human race for out of man, woman was made. This point the seriousness of your identity and role as the man The destiny and strength of a male gender is not just about "sex, money, and power." This is far from the operations of God. The Male gender was created as the leader. You are a leader. I don't care if you are a teenager or youth or adult; you were designed a leader.  In the beginning of creation, no single instruction was given to the woman. God gave Man all instructions to be kept as a sign of him embracing leadership. When Adam and Eve disobeyed - the first person God confronted was Adam even thou Eve caused the whole issue. The reason is because "man is the leader." Live with this consciousness and embrace your calling of responsibility. God wants you to lead your self first through your obedience to his word. In doing this lies your opportunit...

Habakkuk 2:1 I will stand upon my watch, and set me upon the tower, and will watch to see what he will say unto me, and what I shall answer when I am reproved.   As a man, the first step to love at foresight is in you standing. A lot of men as sleeping in ignorance, procrastination, and excuses; this is not the will of God. Some men that are standing are standing in pride, greed, lust, and ignorance; this not the will of God. Teenagers and youths are confused of their future because no father modelled the attitude of standing for them. As a man standing is you knowing who God has created you to be. Standing is self discovering through the Word of God. Standing is being responsible and accountable to God in every aspect of you life. My brother, God created you a male so you can stand; stand for your self, standing for your siblings and your generation. To stand is you studying and meditating on the scriptures. If you must love at foresight, the first step is you gainin...

In fact, if you look up the word modesty, it has absolutely nothing to do with gender. It’s defined by: behavior, manner, or appearance intended to avoid impropriety or indecency. Modesty comes down to doing our part to avoid indecency. It can be present in how we dress. It can be displayed in how we behave. It can exist in how we interact. And modesty can most definitely be expected in how we think. Just as we’re teaching our girls to value their bodies, we’re teaching our boys to value their minds, their thoughts, and their behaviors. We’re teaching them to take ownership of their internal world, just as much as they take ownership of their external world. We’re teaching them that the objectification of women is NOT the standard, and in fact, it’s unacceptable in this home. We’re teaching them to see the opposite sex as living, breathing, human beings who deserve honor, respect, and equality in every way. We’re teaching them that THEY are in charge of their own mode...