BECOME AN INTENTIONAL MAN.

You were born a male but becoming a man is factor of a deliberate effort you must make daily through the strength of Christ.

To become the kind of man God has ordained you to become, you must understand the specific plan God ORDAINED for you. This can be done when you pay attention to God's personal dealing with you via His Word.

Your first responsibility is to dwell in the presence of God. Your second responsibility is to submit to the instructions of the Father. Your third responsibility is to discover your dream (your calling or purpose or life assignment). Your third responsibility is to be intentional and diligent in your dream and produce result/solution. After all the above is in place, that's when you can think of dating/marriage.

These are not my words but how God dealt with Adam in the book of Genesis 2, before He presented a Woman to Him. So, if you think being a man is about chasing women and money. You are abusing yourself.

According to God's standard, the dating/ the lady to marry should be the fourth on your priority list and not the first.

Being a man automatically set you as a LEADER in every location, capacity, age group or social class you are presently. Being a man comes with the demand of you setting standard and setting the pace of how things should be done to profit dreams and humanity. You set this standard by example; this is going to be through your own manner of approach to life, situations, and events according to the standard of God's Word.

Being a man does not mean you are hundred percent perfect. It means you are matured enough to admit when you are wrong. It means you are humble enough to stand for the truth of God's Word. It means you are honest to say No, to anything that belittle the standard of God's Authority, and the Lifestyle of Jesus.

Irrespective of your present level of flaws, success, pain, and achievement, don't be too hard on yourself cos of your failure. Don't accept arrival mentality because of your achievement. BE EVER PROGRESSIVE IN LEARNING, GROWING, PREPARING, BECOMING, AND DEPLOYING YOUR REASON FOR EXISTENCE.

You are a Man of Godly value. Accept it, think it, and attitude you.

Prince Victor Matthew

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