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Where is the king - Part 3

Men were taught to always succeed but no one ever taught him how to learn from his mistakes and failures. They were taught a man do not cry but no one taught them how to be honest about their true feeling. There were taught they are the solution provider but no one taught them how to ask for help when they are in need. WHERE IS THE KING?

Men were taught they have the freedom to propose to any lady they are interested in but no one taught them that every lady has the freedom to say yes or no willingly. They were taught to provide for the family but no one taught them how to pursue their Gods given vision.

WHERE IS THE KING?

Men were taught to always win but no one ever taught them the beauty of defeat. They were taught how to be confident as a man but no one ever taught them the importance of humility. They like correcting the ladies but no one taught them how to accept correction from ladies. Men like ladies apologising to them but they don't like to apologising to ladies. WHERE IS THE KING?

Men were taught every body is a leader but no one taught them every leader has a leader. Some men know how to say I love you,and I miss you to ladies but no one taught them how to say please, thank you and I am sorry. WHERE IS THE KING?

This generation is looking for fathers and men who will protect, nurture, train, support and invest in their self development. Now it difficult for some ladies to relate and trust men because their own father has laid a very wicked example. Some ladies have settle for abusive relationship and they see it normal because these ladies grew with a father that is abusive. Now, they have taken it as a norm. WHERE IS THE KING?

Most of the men that beat, abuse, gossip and slap ladies see it as a norm because that's how they grew watching their dad treat their mum that way. Now, they have accepted the negative role modelling as a norm. WHERE IS THE KING?

All the things men believe in today and all men have become today - some one model it to them. Some one taught them to accept that as a norm. Some one - A Man - taught them the lies and all the negative approach to life, love, sex, relationship, money, addictions...etc.. WHERE IS THE KING?
A broken mentor will produce a broken student. A broken leader will produce broken followers. A broken father will produce broken children. An abusive father will produce abusive children. An irresponsible father will produce children after his kind. Who you submit yourself - holds the picture of the future you are becoming. WHERE IS THE KING?

God has expectations towards the male gender but this generation is failing God. Men are meant to be solution of the same thing men always complain about. WHERE IS THE KING?

You are the king.

I am the king.

We are kings in our individual uniqueness. You are in charge. As a man, you are in charge. Are you nurturing what the Lord has created you to nurture? Are you training what God has created you to train? WHERE IS THE KING?

Are you shifting blames on people and judging every body EXCEPT YOURSELF? Are you feeding what God has created you to feed or what you are meant to feed is feeding you? WHERE IS THE KING?

A King is meant to learn through the act of serving. Are you capable of managing the situation or you don't have a choice. WHERE IS THE KING?

What's your capacity? In your talent, are you a king? In your skill, are you a king? In every aspect of your life, are you a king? WHERE IS THE KING?

Can God trust you for any thing? Can God depend on your availability land capacity? It's not too late to re-position yourself. It's not too late to repent. It's not too late to start afresh with God. It's not too late to drop all the wrong things you have believed. It's not too late to learn afresh and believe all over again through God's word. YOU ARE THE KING?

God is willing to forgive you if you will believe in your heart that God loves you so much. If you are willing to change or decide to start living according to God's word - HOPE is here for you today. YOU ARE THE KING.

Yes! You have hurt many ladies. You have manipulated a lot of ladies. You cheated and disobeyed God's instruction - even God is aware of them all but God's love for you is stronger than your fault. YOU ARE THE KING.



To be continued...
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