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Where is the King? - Part 2


Some teenagers have been impregnated by their own teenage pastor who was suppose to nurture and train them in God's word. WHERE IS THE KING?

Some youths have been impregnated by their own youth pastor who was suppose to nurture and train them in God's word. They are even having sexual affair with their spiritual leaders and still think nothing is wrong with it. Some Leaders take advantage of the ignorance of the youths and teenagers. WHERE IS THE KING?

Marriage is loosing it's value today because some fathers that should model forgiveness and reconciliation have choose to embrace divorce. WHERE IS THE KING?

Mentors that should constantly invest in the self development of the people under their care are not victimising the people they are meant to empower. They use their fears, failures and mistakes to judge the youths and teenagers. They feel intimidated by the uniqueness of the youths. WHERE IS THE KING?
Men that are meant to be role model, leaders, responsible and accountable personality in every area of their lives have now become liability. Kings are not begging. Their failure means nothing to them because they have lost every sense of dignity God gave to them. WHERE IS THE KING?

Men are taught they are the head of the family. They are taught to be strong yet no one taught them to be compassionate. They were taught to be in charge but no one taught them the act of serving. They were taught ladies were created as suitable helpers to them but no one taught them they are to nurture and train these ladies into the path of God. WHERE IS THE KING?

Men are taught the bible says, wife respect your husband but no one taught them that the man must first love the wife before the respect will follow. They were taught the freedom of expression but no one taught them the responsibility and consequence behind every expression they make. They were taught sex is pleasure but no one that taught them sex comes with responsibility. No one taught the important of 'no sex before marriage' WHERE IS THE KING?

Men easily learn how to kiss a lady but no one taught him how to remain truthful to that lady. They learnt how to hug a lady but no one taught them how to accept this lady without judgemental attitude. They know how to date a lady but no one taught them how to invest in the self development of this lady they are dating? WHERE IS THE KING?

Men were taught to always conquer any thing that comes their way but no one taught them how to conquer their own sexual urge, pride, ego and lust. They were taught ladies are meant to be polite to men but no one taught them that men also need to be polite to ladies too. WHERE IS THE KING?

Men always have the knowledge of being a HUSBAND but no one taught them how to be a FATHER. They were taught that ladies were meant to submit to them but no one taught them how to patiently listen to a ladies ideas and opinion. They want a lady to be committed to a relationship yet no one ever told them the voice and opinion of a lady must count in any relationship. WHERE IS THE KING?

Men know they are the HEAD OF THE FAMILY but no one taught them LADIES ARE THE LIFE OF THE FAMILY. Men are quick to GOSSIP, BEAT, SLAP AND ABUSE THE LADIES but no one taught them the bible says THE GLORY OF A MAN IS THE WOMAN. They are quick to feel intimidated and insecure about a ladies success but no one taught them ladies are here to compliment their own weaknesses. WHERE IS THE KING?

Men were taught in the beginning God said it's not good for a man to be alone but no one taught them the first thing God gave ADAM in that same Garden of Eden was not EVE but WORK (vision). WHERE IS THE KING?

To be continued...



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