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DEEP SLEEP - Part 2



Your effort is not needed here. It’s full of Grace and Truth. This is the manifestation of the finished work of Christ.

As a man, you must come to understand that you can only enjoy friendship and relationship through your availability and humility. Any friendship or relationship you are emotionally absent is an abuse. It is called friendship or relationship because availability is NEEDED.


·         Are you emotionally available?
·         Are you available for communication?
·         Are you available to listen to her?
·         Are you available to be committed to her?
·         Are you available to accept your individual difference?
·         Are you available to forgive her?
·         Are you available for you to be who God wants you to be to her?
·         Are you rude to her?
·         Are you humble?
·         Are you polite?
·         Can people correct you without you getting angry?
·         What’s your attitude towards you being rebuked?
·         What’s your attitude towards reconciliation?
·         What’s your attitude toward trust?
·         What’s your attitude towards being compassionate?

If your answer to the questions above is no, negative, IT SHOWS YOU ARE STILL AWAKE. If your answer to the question is positive, IT SHOWS THE LORD IS ALREADY PUTTING YOU INTO A DEEP SLEEP.

God through the Holy Spirit putting you into a DEEP SLEEP is not some thing or an experience that is automatic. It is a journey of a little here and a little there.

The reason why you are having the challenge with ladies is because; you are not in a DEEP SLEEP. The reason why your relationship is unstable is because; you are not in a DEEP SLEEP. The Reason why you are not experiencing fulfillment is because you are not in a DEEP SLEEP.

DEEP SLEEP is the function of God’s word, situation or events transforming your mindset and attitude from the carnal state to God’s attitude. God can use any thing either negative or positive, pain and joy to put you to a DEEP SLEEP. Here is how Romans 8:28 comes into fulfillment.

Being in the DEEP SLEEP is where you are at peace with God even in the midst of pain. It’s being at peace with God even when a lady turns down your proposal. It’s being at peace with God and your ex lover even when she called off the relationship.

DEEP SLEEP is you being humble to the ladies that despise you. It is you being polite to the ladies that abuse you or speak rudely to you. It is your ability to help a lady that once refused to help you. It is you standing in gap through prayers for a lady that dumped you for your best friend.

DEEP SLEEP is you expressing the attitude of God and thinking like God in every situation and with any lady. This is the tendency of you protecting a lady you have the chance to make love (Sex). This is you having the heart to forgive instead of revenging a lady that publicly disgraced you.

DEEP SLEEP is when you are willing to invest in the personal development of a lady. This is you helping a lady even if she will not date you. This is you abstaining from sex before marriage.

DEEP SLEEP is when you are influencing a lady to embrace her personal relationship with God. This is you helping any lady to understand the scripture. This is you consciously refusing to taken advantage on a lady even when you have the chance.

DEEP SLEEP is you consciously avoiding the chance of manipulation a lady. This is you learning to talk to any lady just the way God wants you to talk to them. This is you listening to any lady just the way God wants you to listen to them. This is you treating any lady just like Jesus will treat them.

To be continued...
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