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DEEP SLEEP - Part 3


DEEP SLEEP is when you avoid LORDING your self over any lady. IT’S YOU KNOWING LOVE IS NOT all about changing any lady into who you want them to be. IT’S YOU KNOWING THAT ONLY GOD CAN CHANGE ANY LADY TO HIS PLAN. IT’S A PLACE YOU CHOOSE TO TRUST INSTEAD OF TESTING AND TOILING WITH THE EMOTIONS OF ANY LADY.

DEEP SLEEP is you giving any lady FREEDOM. It’s you giving any lady the freedom to discover and pursue their God’s given dream, calling and vision. It’s you learning to compliment any lady INSTEAD of competing with them. It‘s accepting and feeling secure despite the success of the ladies around you.

It’s only in DEEP SLEEP you can truly find true love. If you don’t allow God to put you in DEEP SLEEP, the Lord will never present your wife to you. The Ladies are God’s daughter and He must be able to trust you with their safety before he present the lady before you.

The reason why you have not recognized your spouse to be is because you are still AWAKE, PROUD AND FULL OF EGO. It’s because the Lord has not present her to you yet. It’s because God is not yet through with you.

Love, dating or relationship is not about the lady you like, it’s all about the Lady God has presented to you. God will never present her to you if you are not in a DEEP SLEEP.

The only location or place where God through the Holy Spirit can present her to you is in the place of a personal relationship with His word.

AS LONG AS YOU ARE ABSENT FROM YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD, YOU WILL NEVER SEE THE LADY THE LORD IS PRESENTING TO YOU. YOU HAVE TO BE INSIDE THE RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD. IN THAT RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS THE ONLY PLATFORM GOD HAS TO SHOW YOU OR PRESENT HER TO YOU.

You need to be available and interested in a personal relationship with God. It’s through your relationship with God that He will put you to DEEP SLEEP through His word. It’s in your place of relationship with the Holy Spirit the Lord will present the lady you should marry.

Stop creating ways outside God’s way. Stop impressing her. Stop lying to her in order to gain respect before him. Stop compromising your faith, vision and priority just for her to accept your proposal. Stop begging and don’t let any lady to treat you with pity.

Whatsoever God has not given to you will always cause you pain and unfulfillment. Drop your effort and depend on His Grace to help you.

I can’t teach you all you need to know about this topic. I now entrust you to the Hands of Grace and Truth as the Holy Spirit will open the eyes of your understanding to know the depth and height of God’s love and plan for your life.

I hand you over to the Holy Spirit to teach and direct you. May the Holy Spirit arrest you into a personal relationship with the word of God and may God put you into a DEEP SLEEP in Jesus Name.

God bless You.
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