The Marriage Proposal

The Marriage Proposal - Part 5

SECURITY

Starting a serious relationship with a lady will demand you to be emotionally secure. Are you comfortable with your self? Do you get intimidated by a ladies success? Can you be humble to learn from a lady? You are secure?

Is your confidence, plans, project and vision strong enough to conquer her fears, worries and doubts? Can you attitude command respect from her or it makes her to doubt her security? Can she be confident to say, I will be fulfilled in life if our children inherit your attitude? How secure is she around you and around the friends you keep? Can she trust you with her money? Can she trust you with her past? Can she be free to be her self without the fear of being judged, condemn or rejected?

How secure can she be around you? Can you protect her, defend her and stand up for her in the midst of your friends, her friends and your family?

Every lady loves financial security, even if you don’t have much money to spend for her, are you available? I know you don’t have money but how committed are you to her business, work, project, talent, creativity..etc?

If you can’t bring money to the table, you should be able to bring creative ideas, concern, support or availability to the table. Can she count on you to fight her fight and run with her? Money is not every thing but being available is every thing. Relationship is made for two people as teammate; don’t make her feel isolated in the relationship just because you don’t have money. Before you ask her for a serious relationship, are you ready for these?

SECURITY, PRIVACY, FRIENDSHIP, COMMUNICATION, FLEXIBILITY AND FREEDOM are the issues to consider before you ask her out for a serious relationship.

Before you ask, will you marry me? – Be so sure you have dealt with issues. Make sure you have settled the individual difference between you and her. Make sure you have sat with the Holy Spirit to get direction and instruction before you make it a serious relationship.

The proposal is a destiny decision because it will dictate every thing you will experience in the future. Your experience in life will depend on it. It is time for you to get the Holy Spirit involved from the start even before you ask her out and journey to the stage of “will you marry me?”

To be continued..

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